Date a girl who isn’t featured on net articles that try to tell you how to live your life. She’s a whole lot more likely to be real than some hypothetical, dreamed-up wonderchick who the writer thinks will make up for his inadequacies.
I want to write a book and never describe what the characters look like. like, i’ll say that they were wearing gorgeous eyeliner, or that their hair was messy, or they had an awesome blue short, but i’d never describe their permanent features. that would make for some interesting fanart. not to mention casting for a movie.
then i would post 100% canon fanart that happens to look totally different from how the entire fandom sees them under a pseudonym